When was the last time you truly disconnected? Not just turned off your work email, but actually stepped away from all screens, notifications and digital noise. If you can't remember, you might benefit from an “invisible day.” This growing self-care trend could boost your mental health.
What Is an Invisible Day?
An invisible day is different from calling in sick or taking a traditional mental health day. It's an intentional break from the pressures of modern life, especially those of social media and technology. The goal is to go completely off-grid, clearing your mind and reconnecting with yourself. For most people, this is a 24-hour break, but there’s no rule that says it has to be that long.
“It's really about that intentionality,” says Lisa MacLean, M.D., a psychiatrist at Henry Ford Health. “So many people take time off just to catch up on work. An invisible day is the opposite—it's a step away from all of that noise in our lives.”
Why Take an Invisible Day?
The benefits of disconnecting are backed by research. Studies show that taking a break from technology can:
- Reduce anxiety, stress and depression
- Improve sleep quality by eliminating light from screens that can wake up your brain and interfere with rest
- Allow your brain to rest and reset from constant cognitive overload
- Enhance relationships and connections when done with a partner or friend
- Increase mindfulness and presence in your daily life
“Many of us keep our phones by our beds and check them right before sleep and first thing in the morning,” Dr. MacLean notes. “That constant connection prevents our brains from truly resting.”
Connecting With Others
One of the most powerful benefits of an invisible day is the opportunity to strengthen relationships. Do you get annoyed when you’re talking to someone and they look down at their phone? Or have you ever inadvertently done this to someone? It’s easy to do, and it can hurt our connection with others.
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“When we’re looking at a device, we’re not being present with people around us,” she explains. “We’re missing out on opportunities for meaningful conversation or just experiencing life together.”
Imagine not having a device in the way when your partner or kids walk through the door. That extra space may be just what you need to appreciate your loved ones a little more.
How to Plan Your Invisible Day
Taking an invisible day requires preparation. “You might even have to lock your phone and laptop in a desk,” Dr. MacLean says. “It's not easy to do, and you have to commit to it.” Try these steps to boost your success:
- Plan ahead. Choose a specific day. Request time off from work in advance so you're not stressed about responsibilities.
- Remove temptation. Turn off notifications, put your phone in a locked drawer or leave devices at home entirely. If you're staying home, consider going somewhere peaceful, such as a quiet park.
- Replace screen time with restorative activities. What will you do instead? Go for a hike, visit a beautiful place, share a meal with someone or sit outside and observe nature.
Can't Commit to a Full Day? Try a Few Invisible Hours
If a full 24 hours feels overwhelming, start with smaller increments. You could do just a few hours of your own mini digital detox:
- Go for a mindful walk without your phone.
- Create a playlist with your partner and listen together during a car ride (a fun way to connect while using minimal technology).
- Practice the five senses exercise: Lie on a blanket outside and notice what you see, hear, smell, feel and taste.
- Make your bedroom a phone-free zone for better sleep.
- Have a device-free dinner with family or friends.
Reconnect With Yourself
“When you're constantly connected to technology, you're not really thinking about what a miracle it is that you're here, living this life right now,” Dr. MacLean reflects. “You probably don't experience those types of moments when you're scrolling through your phone.”
Reviewed by Lisa MacLean, M.D., a psychiatrist specializing in adult ADHD treatment at Henry Ford Behavioral Services in Detroit. She is the director of physician wellness for Henry Ford Health, where she uses her expertise to help doctors optimize wellness and find balance by teaching them healthy coping strategies so they can better serve their patients.
